Level Up Gents

Always show your lady respect.  Especially in public around friends.  Nothing is more awkward and embarassing than being blasted by your boyfriend in front of your friends.  Remember, she’s not your Bro.  She’s your girlfriend.  And putting her on blast or showing her a lack of respect ain’t cool- especially in public.  The conversation turns into her becoming the butt end of a joke and everyone laughing at her and not with her.  And if that is your intent then she needs to leave you.

This 9 year old has some good advice.  You think he’s single?

Most women are not mind readers, although many pose to be.  So if you like her, you need to let her know.  Do it with a grand gesture.  Stop with the subtle hints, minor flirts, and games.  It’s not enough to really let her know you are serious.  It’s a riskier move and you are putting yourself out there but with greater risk is greater reward.  And at least it’s out there and not a long and drawn out ordeal.

Even if initially she may have thought she wasn’t that into you- if you make that grand gesture and really sweep her off her feet, she can’t help but crush on you back.  It’s not a guarantee but you’ll get your answer sooner than later.  Every woman wants to feel and be treated like a princess, as cliche that is.  Make her feel like she’s THE special one and you’ll have more success than flirting like a six year old.

Don’t poke a girl.  And I mean with your finger that is attached to your hand.  Gosh you have a dirty mind!  It’s quite juvenile and you are only going to make her self conscience when you stick your finger into her love handle.  That applies to the virtual world as well.  If you want her attention say real words to the girl.

This is probably the only time I’d say don’t apologize and that’s when your in the sack.  Unless you really fuck up or accidentally elbow her in the face that is.  Don’t make an awkward situation any more awkward by profusely apologizing and making it more awkward or her just lying and saying its okay.  So you went limp or came early.  Shit happens but don’t let it ruin the mood.  If she’s not done, then turn the attention to her and make it up.

We live in an age where text messages, e-mails, and IMs rule in forms of communication.  But they can be so impersonal and read the wrong way in many cases.  Trying to set up a date over text can take up to an hour with the back and forth when it can be easily taken care of in about 5-10 minutes talking over the phone.  Follow up on a date with a real call over a text.  She’ll appreciate it.  It’s refreshing to have a real conversation.

When you get down to do the dirty you should be naked from at least the waist down.  That includes the socks buddy.  No one looks more foolish naked when you still have your socks on.  And if you do I hope there are no holes in them.

They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.  I believe the same can apply to a woman too. I mean who doesn’t love a man who can cook?  My dream would be to come home from work everyday and have an amazing dinner waiting for me.  One of my favorite magazines is Martha Stewart’s Everyday Foods.  The monthly magazine offers offers quick, easy and practical solutions to the challenges of everyday cooking and includes easy-to-make recipes along with smart tips and kitchen techniques. Collect the magazine to maintain a go-to library of great nutritious meal ideas.  $15/year subscription.  A great date night is cooking dinner with your little lady.  Always makes it more fun.